How often do you worry about “being someone” whoâ€™s confident?
Weâ€™re conditioned by society and media to believe that there is a certain “image” of a confident person. Think of a confident person. Do it right now. What do they look like? The image that youâ€™re thinking of is one that was put in place by the media. Thatâ€™s exactly why a lot of people spend time trying to become a “confident person” like they see in the media.Â Thatâ€™s not how to be confident.
What you actually need to do is be confident in yourself.
You shouldnâ€™t spend time trying to be someone else. Youâ€™re your own person!
If you are 100% sure who you are and you fully accept and are comfortable with who you are, then you will be confident. Thatâ€™s all you need to do. It doesnâ€™t matter how you dress, what you look like, what TV shows you like, what your hobbies are, etc. You can still be 100% confident in who you are. Thatâ€™s all you need to do.